There’s something I see time and time again in my work with couples—and if I’m honest, I’ve seen it in myself too. We become quietly, fiercely devoted… not to each other, but to our own version of reality . Our own story.Our own pain.Our own interpretation of events. And before we know it, we’re no longer in a relationship—we’re in two parallel worlds, running side by side, rarely touching. It’s like living in the same home but speaking completely different emotional language

As an experienced psychotherapist, psychoanalyst, and counsellor, based in Perth, Subiaco, I have worked with countless couples,...

In relationships, both the conscious and unconscious mind play significant roles in how we connect with others. Carl Jung's famous quote...