Couples & Marriage Counselling | Relationship Coaching | Subiaco-Perth
Building a God-Honoring Marriage: Counseling for Christian Couples
Strengthening Your Covenant, Together in Christ
Welcome. Your marriage is more than a partnership; it's a covenant designed by God to be a reflection of His love for the church. But even the strongest, most faith-filled marriages face seasons of difficulty. In a world that often pulls couples apart, seeking guidance rooted in biblical truth is a powerful step towards healing, restoration, and a deeper connection with both God and your spouse.
If you feel disconnected, misunderstood, or caught in cycles of conflict, you are not alone. Our counseling service is a safe, confidential space dedicated to helping you and your spouse navigate challenges through a Christ-centered lens.
We believe that God's design for marriage is good, and with His help, your relationship can not only survive but thrive.
A Christ-Centered Approach to Marriage
Our counseling philosophy is built on the unchanging truth of God's Word. We integrate sound psychological principles with biblical wisdom to guide you toward a marriage that is loving, resilient, and glorifying to God.
Unlike secular counseling, our approach intentionally invites God into the process. We believe He is the ultimate source of healing and reconciliation. Our sessions are grounded in:
Biblical Principles: We use Scripture as our primary guide for understanding marriage, love, forgiveness, and commitment. Key concepts like grace, servant leadership, and mutual submission (Ephesians 5:21−33) are foundational to our work.
Prayer: We begin and end our time together in prayer, seeking the Holy Spirit's guidance, wisdom, and comfort for you and your relationship.
Grace and Forgiveness: We emphasize the power of the Gospel in marriage, helping couples extend the same grace and forgiveness to each other that Christ has extended to them (Colossians 3:13).
Covenant, Not Contract: We help you see your marriage not as a contract based on performance, but as a lifelong covenant before God based on unconditional love and commitment (Malachi 2:14−16).
Common Challenges We Address
We provide guidance for Christian couples navigating a wide range of issues, always with the goal of honoring God in the resolution.
Communication Breakdowns: Learn to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and listen with grace, moving from hurtful arguments to constructive, heart-to-heart conversations.
Conflict and Anger: Develop biblical strategies for managing anger, resolving conflict, and seeking reconciliation without causing lasting damage.
Spiritual Intimacy: Bridge gaps in your spiritual connection. We help you find unity in your faith, learn to pray together, and encourage one another's walk with Christ.
Physical Intimacy and Oneness: Address challenges related to physical intimacy within the safety of God's design for marriage, fostering connection and mutual respect (1 Corinthians 7:3−5).
Financial Stewardship: Align your financial goals and habits with biblical principles of stewardship, working as a team to manage God's resources wisely.
Parenting and Family Issues: Navigate the challenges of raising children in the faith and dealing with extended family dynamics in a way that protects your marital unity.
Restoring Trust After Betrayal: A confidential and grace-filled space to walk the difficult road of healing and restoration after infidelity or other forms of betrayal.
Navigating Major Life Transitions: Find stability and unity during challenging seasons like career changes, illness, or empty-nesting.
Our Counseling Process: A Journey to Oneness
Taking the first step can be intimidating, so we've made our process clear, gentle, and focused on your comfort and goals.
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First Session - Your Story: In our first 60-minute session, we'll explore the history of your relationship, the current challenges you're facing, and your hopes for the future of your marriage.
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Collaborative Goal Setting: Together, we will identify key areas for growth and set Christ-centered, practical goals for your counseling journey.
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Ongoing Sessions: In subsequent sessions, we will use biblical wisdom and therapeutic tools to work toward your goals. You'll gain new skills, insights, and a deeper understanding of God's plan for your relationship.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Q: Do we have to be "super religious" to benefit from this?
A: Not at all. We welcome couples at every stage of their faith journey. Whether you have a deep, lifelong faith or are just beginning to explore what it means to have a Christ-centered marriage, you are welcome here.
Q: Is everything we say confidential?
A: Absolutely. Confidentiality is paramount to creating a safe space for you to be open and honest. All sessions are strictly confidential, except where required by law (e.g., risk of harm to self or others).
Q: What if my spouse is hesitant to come?
A: This is a very common concern. We encourage you to start with the free consultation call together. Often, hearing directly from the counselor and understanding the process can ease anxieties. You can also begin counseling individually to work on your role in the marriage.
Q: How is Christian counseling different from just talking to our pastor?
A: While pastoral care is invaluable, professional Christian counseling combines biblical wisdom with clinical training in relational dynamics. We are equipped to address deeper psychological and emotional patterns while keeping Christ at the center. We are happy to work in conjunction with your pastor or church leaders if you wish.